Suspicion: Not a Song by Elvis

What To Do About a Loved One’s Drug or Alcohol Use

There are many exciting things happening in the area of Chemical Dependency Counseling not only in Marion County, but the State of Kansas. Some of these things include an increased emphasis on access to treatment, new cutting-edge programs, and the incorporation of scientific research on brain development as it specifically relates to addiction. Such advancements are leading to new medications and alternative treatment methods that are helping people overcome addictions.

If you believe that a family member is using drugs or alcohol, and that the behavior has become a problem, it is important to be supportive and to help them see that there is a problem. Most people do not initially admit that their drug and/or alcohol use is a problem. An intervention can be helpful in some cases, but the main thing is to ensure your and the person's safety and to get them the help they need. In worst-case scenarios, this may involve the police.

If you suspect that your child, or adolescent in particular, may be using drugs or alcohol you first must confront them respectfully, but with the understanding that it will not be accepted and that you will help them get the help they need. Be aware that they will most likely be resistant. You must be willing to take this and to stand firm. Above all, let them know that you love them, but that because you care, you will not accept their behavior.

There are certain signs to look for if you suspect your child or adolescent may be using drugs or alcohol. Look for sudden changes in attitude, appearance and/or friends, as well as unusual eating patterns. If you do see some of these things or other signs that concern you, follow your instincts. Even if you don’t want to believe that this may be the case, it is better to take a stand before it gets out of control and then to allow a professional to make a formal evaluation. This helps in a number of ways. First, it removes your responsibility to make the decision and allows an objective party to help with pertinent information. That information can be used to make appropriate decisions as to the next step.

Many different kinds of help are available for those in need. Options range from classes about drugs and alcohol to inpatient treatment, in which a person stays in a facility for 30-90 days. There are inpatient facilities throughout the state, all of which work specifically with adults and adolescents. Prairie View in Marion County offers outpatient treatment that includes classes and individual sessions for substance abuse. This program also can evaluate the need for more intensive treatment. With the new emphasis on this growing problem, Prairie View in Marion has recently hired additional staff and is in the process of program development and expansion to deal with these related issues. This will include group and individual therapy with funding assistance available. If you or someone you know is struggling, or if you would simply like more information, please contact us. You can call 1-800-992-6292 or 620-382-3701.

Jami Lawless, LCPC, NCC Prairie View 504 South Roosevelt Marion, Kansas 66861 620-382-3701

Articles by agency staff, individuals and partners are funded by a Drug Free Community grant from the Substance Abuse Mental Health Services Administration to Communities In Schools of Marion County, Inc. If you are interested in learning more about prevention and other information pertaining to services, children, youth and families, contact Linda Ogden, Executive Director at 620-947-3184 or ogdenlin@teen.k12.ks.us